My Story. Why This Blog?

Hi there. My name is Monika and I welcome you to this blog. Although I wish I didn’t have to, as I can relate to some of the pain many of you may be experiencing.

As an only child, it was a long, distressing journey when both my parents declined into dementia.

Three years ago my mum, Greta, suffered a mini-stroke (TIA) and both my parents covered up very well for her for six months before I realised her functionality was significantly reduced.

My parents were deep soul mates who weathered many storms together.  I believe, with no medical proof, that my Dad, Michael’s, dementia came as a kind of post traumatic stress reaction to Mum’s decline. My Dad’s memory and words started to reduce significantly.

The day came when I had to move them to an aged care place which was very traumatic for us all, even though I was very blessed to find an exceptional home.

The grieving of a loved one with dementia starts early – way before they pass. In this blog, I hope to share some of my story as well as research I come across, in the hope of perhaps bringing some support to others on this slow, long journey of fare-welling a loved one with dementia.

Last year, my parents both died six months apart. It has been said to “be the person you needed” and I hope to be that to those of you on a similar journey. My vision is to see this blog become a support community to those who have to face the reality of the diagnosis of a loved one with dementia.

5 thoughts on “My Story. Why This Blog?

  1. What a beautifully written piece. I am sure many will feel supported as they read your words through this blog and hear your heart.


  2. Takes so much strength and courage to share something so personal. Thank you for sharing this, and the awareness it will bring to the wider community .


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